Before you seek a psychic or medium’s help, try to relax. Take five deep breaths with slow exhales to calm your mind and release any tensions in your body. Relaxing creates a better atmosphere for your reading and makes it easier for Spirit to make contact.

You can also meditate before your reading to focus your energies on any issues you may need or want addressed.

Spirit provides evidence of identity in many ways. It can be by name, description, personality, incidents, relationships, hobbies  or anything that might be meaningful to you.

Let the medium know when she is correct.

Something may make more sense by the end of the reading, or the understanding of the message may come at a later time. Don’t be too quick to dismiss something that comes through.

The true success of a reading is not always measured by prophecy, but by the guidance it provides.  Prediction is possible, but you have the power to change coming events.  Mediumship is not fortune telling. Please do not approach a reading with a “test the medium” attitude, it will cause an energetic wall  to  go up.

Understand that Spirit comes through in a reading, first and foremost, to give assurances and love to those left behind in the physical world. It is not Spirit’s function to make decisions for you about career, love, and related matters, but to inspire, guide, and affirm the reality of life after death.

Only you are responsible for your life and the choices that you make.

The medium realizes when the Spirits are gone. Don’t try to prolong the reading.

No medium can promise that your desired Spirits will come through in a reading, or what will be said.  Please seek a reading for the Right reasons, not to prove the reader.